Thom S. Rainer

Thom S. Rainer

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  • Six Reasons Comparisons Hurt Churches

    Six Reasons Comparisons Hurt Churches

    Unhealthy churches have numbers of leaders and/or members who do not practice 1 Corinthians 13 in their local congregations. These persons tend to seek their picture of an ideal church rather than loving their current church, her leaders, and her members. They are thus constantly comparing some aspect of the church with some other church or members or leaders.

  • Eight of the Most Significant Struggles Pastors Face

    Eight of the Most Significant Struggles Pastors Face

    Criticism and conflict is one. I do have a few observations about this number one issue. First, it seems to be growing, and pastors seem to be experiencing greater challenges. Second, most of the issues of conflict are not doctrinal issues.

  • Pastors and Mental Health

    Pastors and Mental Health

    The issue of mental health and Christians is finally getting some attention. Among the Christians who have challenges, many pastors struggle with depression. We hear too frequently about a pastor committing suicide. And many wonder how such a tragedy could happen to someone whose life was committed to serving the Lord.

  • Six Major Issues Regarding the Digital Church

    Six Major Issues Regarding the Digital Church

    The "digital church attendees" likely view the worship services online. Some churches now view these persons as integral participants in the life of the church. A small but growing number are willing to grant them membership.

  • 12 Reasons Pastors' Wives Are Lonely

    12 Reasons Pastors' Wives Are Lonely

    Pastors' wives have shared a common plight: they are very lonely. Some of the most common reasons pastors' wives have offered to explain their loneliness: superficial relationships in the church and mean church members.

  • 7 Warning Signs of Affairs for Pastors and Other Church Staff

    7 Warning Signs of Affairs for Pastors and Other Church Staff

    The conversation is always sad, always tragic. The pastor who left his church after a two-year affair with another church member. The student pastor who has been out of vocational ministry since he had a brief sexual encounter with his assistant. I have spoken with countless numbers of these men and women. And each time I am reminded of how much I need to love God with all my heart, and to be totally devoted to my wife.

  • 7 Reasons Very Active Church Members Drop Out

    7 Reasons Very Active Church Members Drop Out

    During my 25 plus years of church consultations, I have interviewed a number of these active-to-inactive persons. Most of them shared freely and openly with me what took place in their lives, and how it impacted their ultimate decision to stop attending church.

  • 7 Observations on Church Discipline

    7 Observations on Church Discipline

    Yet the topic of church discipline seems to be primarily reserved for the theologians and a few pastors. Those of us who write about practical ministry and church health rarely mention this topic, even though it is a clear biblical practice. Allow me to note seven observations about church discipline.

  • 10 Common Topics of Church Member Arguments

    10 Common Topics of Church Member Arguments

    For many years I served as a consultant to churches and denominations, a role I relinquished when I became president of LifeWay over eight years ago. Part of our consultative process was interviewing church members. Inevitably I would hear issues of concern and issues among church members over which arguments took place.

  • 11 Reasons Pastors Are Trusted Less Today

    11 Reasons Pastors Are Trusted Less Today

    Why are pastors no longer held in high esteem? What is behind the precipitous drop in favorable ratings almost every year? Allow me to offer eleven possible reasons. As you will see, they are not mutually exclusive.