Christian Ex-Porn Star's Message to Kacey Jordan
An ex-porn star has a message for adult film star Kacey Jordan, who was tied to Charlie Sheen for her sexual services early this year. Jordan allegedly tried to kill herself on Monday.
Although some reports indicated that Jordan's suicidal messages on Twitter were only a publicity stunt, Shelley Lubben is certain that she's not only trying to get people's attention but also desperately asking for help.
One of tweets reads: "i took a bunch of pills...drank a hotel size bottle of jack... stumbled to the bathroom to weigh myself.........86 lbs."
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She also tweeted: "i've over done it... the more i do...i keep passing out... i just pray i wake up each time."
Regarding the tweets, Lubben told The Christian Post, "She's online all the time crying out for help. We need to help her, we need to get her out of that situation and get her to a safe place. "
When the Chicago police arrived at Jordan's hotel room on Monday, they found her with prescription pill bottles, broken glass and alcohol. They also found cuts and scrapes on her wrists and arms. To Lubben, none of this is surprising.
The ex-porn star sincerely wants Jordan to be aware that she "has been put in the Hollywood scene because she's connected to Charlie Sheen, she had an abortion just recently, she's traumatized, [and] she needs help."
During Sheen's cocaine bust in January, Jordan was reported to have had a brief sexual encounter with the actor. She found him to be "the most self-destructive person I have ever met," according to an interview with GQ.
She recently tweeted about Sheen, "those 16 hours i was with charlie sheen... messed me up... i can't get that image out of my head... i think i keep trying to feel his pain."
As a woman who has seen porn industry firsthand, Lubben wants to help the 22-year-old. But she's urging the public to first, cease contributing to the porn industry by watching porn and second, stop thinking that porn is a glamorous world as most make it seem.
As an ex-porn star, she knows the trauma that results from working in the industry.
"I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, I was really sick, mentally and emotionally from my time in the porn industry. All the porn stars are like this," she told CP.
She added, "The porn industry tries to hide [it]."
"It's common for porn stars to get abortions, it's very common for them to have stress disorder," she explained. "And I know because not only was I there, but now I have a non-profit organization called Pink Cross Foundation that helps women and men out of porn who had substance abuse problems or some kind of mental disorder."
Her advice for Jordan is to remove herself from everything and everyone tied to the industry; go to a detox center where she can be cleaned from all the alcohol and drugs she's been taking; and then seek a trauma therapist and learn coping skills from ex-porn stars.
"She just had an abortion so her female hormones are all crazy right now. She needs to be taken out of the environment very quickly and be put into safety where a professional needs to reach out to her," Lubben urged.
"People like Kacey Jordan come in and out all the time and some of them commit suicide. She's lucky to be alive."
Lubben, a follower of Christ, has worked on years of research trying to bring down the porn industry from the pedestal.
According to her book, The Truth Behind the Fantasy of Porn, she notes that a porn star dies every month and that porn should be considered sex trafficking due to the high demand and requests for the porn stars.
"I hope people in the porn industry will start listening to the voice of reason and the voice of truth," she told CP.
In her own testimony, she said, "Jesus Christ gets all the glory. I wouldn't be alive if he didn't saved me. We need to be praying for them, we need to reach out to them."
On the Web: http://www.shelleylubben.com/
