How Should I Respond to Hard Times?
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him. Romans 8:28
"It's not fair!" "Why do bad things always happen to me?" Have you ever said or thought things like this? We all go through hard times in our lives. Illness or divorce in your family can be hard experiences to go through. Maybe your family has no place to live because your parents don't have a job. Maybe others make fun of you because you're a Christian.
It's tempting to respond to hard times by getting angry with God. You might think, "If God really loved me, He wouldn't let this bad thing happen." That's not true. God always loves and cares for you! He is always working out His plan for your life. God uses hard times to help you trust Him more. In this way, others will see Jesus at work in you, and your life will honor God.
When hard times come, remember that God is sovereign–He is in control! He knows about everything that happens to you, and He allows only what is best. Tell God how you feel. Ask Him to help you trust Him. Ask Him to give you quietness on the inside. Then, patiently wait for God to work things out for your good.
What was God's purpose for Ricardo? To honor God and be a shining light in his neighborhood! That is God's purpose for you as well. God has given you ways to serve Him. He has told you about many of them in His Word, the Bible. Ask Him to show you each day what you can do to honor Him.
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